Bob’s lesson about learning how to make things less heavy and to add fun isn’t about shying away from bad things in life or uncomfortable situations. Rather it’s about choosing a perspective.
Is setting a boundary actually a judgement? It was a very uncomfortable realization as recently a friend pointed this out to me when I asked, if by expressing my boundary was I sounding judgmental?
When we hold the belief that our way is the only right way we are judging others on their morals. When we could instead choose the skill of curiosity and choose to learn more rather than to show up in a place of judgement.